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My views on Relationship – Madraasi Scribbles

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Relationship – what a beautiful and lovely word that has too many meanings within it. I would say that the meaning of relationship depends only on the concerned person – how they get to mean it (may be in a wrong manner or a good manner).

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About Relationship – Madraasi Scribbles

At times, I feel irritated why people imagine everything in a wrong or worst way, finally after few incidents I concluded that it’s one and only because of their surroundings and people they come across and most importantly based on their own behavior, because you could relate anyone only with things you see or face. When you are good and true to someone, you could feel only the positivity and not the negativity.

Recently the word relationship after it took its lead on to the social media status – this beautiful word has teared apart too many worst faces of the people. Just like that I keep on asking myself – why the bond between a daughter and father, mother and son, between friends may be of same gender or opposite gender differ – doesn’t come to most of the people’s mind. Instead there comes only the ugliest meaning for relationship, so awkward to hear it very often from few people, who don’t even understand or know what a relationship is.

What I would say about RELATIONSHIP is – You can talk anything from your mind and no secrets. Also, a healthy relationship never brings you down, it only lifts you up and stays with you amidst struggles, does anything to hold the bond.

Be yourself, love yourself, nothing is worthier or best than you, spend a few minutes with yourself in a day and I would say that is the world’s best relationship that can make you strong, confident and let you stretch your wings and fly high in the air.

LIVE AND LET LIVE

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Birthday Celebration of my Son – Hiresh – Madraasi Scribbles

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Happy Birthday to MY HIRI

Last week Monday it was my Son’s Birthday – no other birthdays was such hectic to me. But this little one has his own style of making me listen and the most important is making me to get in action for whatever he says – Yeah! He requested for 40 mini Mango Cheese Cake, White sauce pasta and Potato wedges for his friends who came for birthday party.

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Happy Birthday to my Son – BeemBali Cake

Glad I would say that he dint requested anything for his school friends – as usual it was chocolates, because the number would been too high 😊. Personally, I have a feeling that birthdays are very special to one – which should be loaded with fun, love and gifts (I never had a birthday like that and I never wanted it ). But I love the most is I love to have the same way for my loved ones, and so birthdays are attached to my life.

Being the youngest one in the family, he’s been everyone’s fond. We had Birthday party around 7.30 p.m, all the kids in our apartment to our home. We had a cake cutting – this time we had a new theme cake called “BheemBhali – combination of Bheem and Bahubhali 😝, Bahubali comes with bow and arrow so when Bheem comes with bow and arrow its BHEEMBHALI 😊), followed by dance which was arranged by my daughter as a gift to her little brother with her friends. My hubby gifted him a bicycle, which was his love, he feels as he rides DUCATI, when he rides his cycle. The most longing thing for him is Bow and Arrow (Bahubali freakiness 😝, Bahubali – Recent Indian movie), I gifted him and he was jumping to the sky and earth.

This what is the happiness I needed to see from him, beauty about this little one is – he the one who changes my mood, in times of anger, sorrow. Wishing him a Very Very Happy Birthday with loads and loads of love, health, success and wealth all over your life.

Happy Birthday to my Son

Today’s Kids and Their Lifestyle – Madraasi Scribbles

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I have seen most of the kids even Just a year-old ones, playing with Electronic devices like mobile phones, tablets, laptops … may be during travel or at home. Nowadays we parent, when we need to do our work peacefully or spend our time happily, we just give any of our electronic gadgets to keep them happy (away from us).

Do we ever think is it good for them? Do they get everything that we enjoyed in our childhood? Are they in good health and really happy? These are questions that arise to me, today when we were discussing about a candy man, who use to come along the streets with candy by playing music, we as kids used to rush for candy once we hear the music. He would wrap the candy in the form of watch, bangle, bracelet or chain as we wish. When we were discussing about that my daughter has experienced this but my son never experienced and now the concept is almost gone .

Not only with others, it also happened with me. Being a mother of two kids – daughter (10 yrs) and son (5 yrs). I would say that there are many fabulous and interesting things that my son missed than my daughter and my daughter missed than me 😊

Where does it all go –

                                A Beautiful sand castle, where we dig doors and hold the hands through it.

                                A wooden and mud kitchen set, where leaves and flowers as a dish.

                                A gang of kids playing games – hide and seek, hopscotch, snake and ladders (thayam), stick fighting (kambu suthuthal), pallankuzhi, kho-kho, Killi (similar to cricket 😝), Gusthi (similar to wrestling 😝).

                                Having Koottanchoru (everyone brings an ingredient that is possible by them, all cooks together with the assistance of the elder and eat for lunch sitting together)

                                A street (all the people of that street) assemble together in a central place of their street, have fun and later watch movie and have fun together during the late nights of the weekend.

                                                                         And the list keeps going ……………………….

But today, there exists summer classes, kids stay inside the home watching cartoons or playing with their gadgets, which results in the lack of vitamin-D, due to the lack of sunlight. Completely engaged with electronic gadgets makes them more and more intelligent and talent, but not physically active.

Kids below 3 years, engaging themselves with gadgets and cartoons, takes time to speak but with early sight problems, poor conduct with sunlight, as they are happy in their world and we (parents) are busy in our world.

From my view, just like that I feel kids can engage with electronic gadgets but not the whole time. Enjoy the indoor games but not all time. Let them shout, run, dance, cycle but with care, as childhood is the most precious stage to make memories for the whole life 😊